FRIENDS STRONGER THAN BROTHERS
Memorise:
A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother. .. Proverbs 18:24
Read:
1 Samuel 18:1-4
Message
Friendship is a very sensitive topic to discuss, especially in these last days when many have become lovers of themselves (2 Timothy 3:1-2). In spite of this, however, everybody still needs good friends. Some friends can be closer to you than a brother-you need one or two of such friends around you. Such friends will challenge you to do more for God and can tell you the truth when everyone else is afraid to do so. They are people that you can have as a shoulder to lean on when the chips are down.
Acts 3:1 says that Peter and John went to the temple. You may ask yourself, after the Holy Ghost descended on 120 people in Acts 2, why is the Bible bringing only these two to our notice? The reason, I believe, is that they were friends who were part of Jesus' inner circle. They were three in that circle - Peter, James and John. Out of these three, Peter and John had a close relationship even before Jesus died. If you read John 13:21-26, at the last supper, when Jesus said somebody was going to betray Him without telling them who it was, Peter beckoned to John and told him to ask Jesus. That is an example of a friend you can ask to pray for you concerning a matter you are not clear about, and he will hear from God for you.
After Jesus died and rose from the dead, the link between them obviously grew stronger. In John 20:1-8, when Mary Magdalene discovered that Jesus had risen and came to tell the apostles, two of the apostles ran to the tomb; they were Peter and John. It's interesting to note that John is the one who wrote the story, and he stressed that he outran Peter and got to the tomb first- in fact, he repeated it twice! I always wonder, "Why are you telling Us that you beat him so emphatically?" There seemed to be a friendly competition as to who loved Jesus more between them.
You need friends you can have healthy competitions with on who can pray the longest, who reads more Scriptures, who wins more souls and so on. The link between Peter and John was strong, and it rested on their relationship with Jesus. You need friends whose link with you is majorly based on the link you both have with Jesus' Christ.
Bible In One Year:
Exodus 24-27
Hymn:
Friend In Jesus
Reflection:
Do you have a friend who challenges you to draw closer to God?
I've found a friend in Jesus
He's the Lily of the Valley, the Bright and Morning Star,
He's the Fairest often thousand to my soul.